Monday’s Muse-The Writer’s Contract by Aimee Bender

“In a mood of faith and hope my work goes on. A ream of fresh paper lies on my desk waiting for the next book. I am a writer and I take up my pen to write.”

Pearl S. Buck quotes (American author, 1938 Nobel Prize for Literature, 1892-1973)

I consider Monday’s to be a day for motivation and to find your muse for inspiration to get through the week. Here’s a great article from famed writer Aimee Bender. The Writer’s Contract Guidelines might help you find a way to stay committed to writing and “in good faith”, show up for your work.

I’m going to give it a try and use my wonderful supportive sister to hold me accountable for my writing. Writer’s need schedules, especially the ones that have no control over theirs-like me! With a toddler on the loose in the house, Mommy here needs to have a ritual besides feed, play with, bathe and put to sleep the baby. Easier said than done, but anything and everything is always worth a try in order to find time to write.

Contract Writer’s Guidelines – Writer’s Contract –

Sleepless in L.A.

I never realized what a great influence Nora Ephron was on me or how much of a fan I was of her work until hearing of her passing last week Tuesday. I was overcome with sadness and felt lost for a moment, and wondered what is to become of the intelligent romance films that we are so used to seeing from her? I thought of her witty blogs on Huffington Post, who else can write with her cheeky verve and smarts? Whenever replays of “When Harry Met Sally”, “You’ve Got Mail” or “Sleeples In Seattle” (I read someone calling it the “holy trinity” of romance movies) come on the T.V., to the dismay of my husband for using DVR space, I happily record these movies to watch later on, delete them and then repeat the next time they are on T.V. again. You’d think by now he’d get the hint and buy the DVD’s for me or I should have them myself by now-but I digress. As I told him, they are my “comfort and inspiration” movies and being a mom at 42 of a precocious 2yr. old, I am living out another life whenever I watch Nora Ephron films, as a way of taking a short vacation.

I also have her book, “Wallflower at the Orgy”, about her time as a journalist which is a compilation of essays and magazine articles. These articles display her wit and sharpness as a writer. She had the career most female writers and I would love to have, but for me I never had the guidance or drive to try and keep pushing forward. I went about becoming a writer, not the wrong way, but the harder way. Harder being my lack of confidence and the lack of support from family members. I’ve been writing all my life, but when it came time to make my career decision while in college, I followed another love, art history, but it wasn’t my passion. To make a long story short, I am now a writer, although not the best and and not the consistent writer I’d like to be, I am doing what I love and am passionate about.

In Nora Ephron’s death and reading of her career accomplishments, her generosity as a friend and mentor, her love of food, cooking and entertaining, and love for her family and friends, I’ve fallen in love all over again with being a writer and appreciate more now the good things and the people in life that matter to me. I’m not one of the lucky people that  had the chance to meet or know Nora Ephron, but through her films I’ll at least feel what it’s like to be a part of her world, and through her writings, I will always be motivated by what it takes to be a good writer.

Motivation Monday

“Unless you’re willing to have a go, fail miserably, and have another go, success won’t happen.”
Phillip Adams

“It is for us to pray not for tasks equal to our powers, but for powers equal to our tasks, to go forward with a great desire forever beating at the door of our hearts as we travel toward our distant goal.” Helen Keller

I find I need to read quotes like this one to remind me to get out of my writer’s funk and just begin. It forces me to find a way to make it work while keeping an eye on my toddler. He’s a little boy and a handful like his father.

It’s Monday and I’ve got a whole week to write, research,  and read. If only it were that easy. But I will find a way. I have no excuses to get SOMETHING done. That’s why I declare today to be a motivational day. Hope these quotes keep you inspired and going for the rest of the week!